Tuesday, March 4, 2008

No one to Trust????

well life's just hell when u have no one u can trust....especially if your in a really strict college :(
you dont know whom to trust...just cant figure out your allies from your enemies.
It is really hard to be in such a situation.

well its like being in an island......just cant talk to anyone simply because u dont trust them
theres always this is fear......for instance your telling a secret to a person who happens to be your friend
will he keep your secrets as a secret or will he just embarrass u in front of the lott ??? it is all probability n depends on how loyal your friend is to you......coz these kind of experiences are not that pleasant n you wud wish never to re-live these moments again.
sometimes u even feel hurt.....wen you realize that the person u trusted so much is not what u expected him to be and happens to be a totally different character.
and theres every chance that he might start hatin him/her......

these kind of situations may also lead to self doubt and you may not trust your instincts, also the judgement you make about others and yourself and also some may fall into a depression and they just cant be there real self.

Have u heard of broken friendships n lovers
its all just a matter of loosing faith, that is the trust in each other :)
sometimes we feel, i have helped him so much but when i need anything from the same person.....he may become unreliable n you leave you cursing yourself for the people around you just want to have what you possess and not really you!!!!!
coz people have changed there morals have gone from bad to worse
so its no use blaming others..... all u can do is be good n do your work to the best of your ability and you will c that everyone likes u and you will feel the completeness in you, once when you find yourself a friend.

you would definitely realize the true meaning of a friend only when u find your real true friend.....until then even a friend is just a theoretical concept " a friend is a person who cares 4 u n is always there to help u , wen your really in need of help" he he he :)

so go out and face the world..... as i would say "the entire world is for the taking, why even leave an island".

Always remember your born to rule, if your down then who will the others look upto!!!!!!!!!! so be a leader and guide the dumbos into the light. Let today be the day that u changed someone to the better and be proud of yourself, that you have done something worthwhile.

6 comments:

kittu said...

ya i should someday....still i trust a few
but not all...

pc said...

Cool post buddy..

Even I faced some situations. But one thing is for sure TRUST id the most important part of any relation.

Essen said...

dude i really didn't know that u faced situations lik this... but u have talked about 1 guy who had just let ur secrets out.... i am sure that guy is 1 of our classmate and u must remember that he has let ur secrets only to those who r considered to be ur friends who r going to be with u for 4 years....but i do feel sorry for u for making it a public issue.. its been 2 years together i think now u know who to trust......

kittu said...

hey dude its ok.....wrote tht wen i was really bugged

didnt wanna make things public n all:D

Unknown said...

ya thats true but some day i should trust some one but how eva i should choose the rite ont to trust

kayal vizhi said...

nice post...

but u know me and my trust on u.. and care for u.. its true tat its hard to find trusted frnds and lovers[:(] but... i know wat ur thinking in ur mind rite now.. i am writin this comment.. and u know me very well.. common da.. i know in wat position u wud have written tat.. ur not so much bugged rite now.. but still.. during those hard times.. just think of the only one person who ll always stay for u.. and i swear on god tat i am ther for u at any time u need me.. :) even at 2.. lol..;)i don tend to b proud here.. i am just telling i am atleast one of those [hopefully] frnds u have.. life s really puzzling da.. each and every day s a new lesson.. enjoy learning them.. if v don feel the pain of life sometimes, we wil never know how sweet happiness is..

love..
kayal:)